So, I have opened this blogspace to help document the next 18-24months of my life, which should well be the best 2 years of my life.
Obviously, these 2 years haven`t just appeared from no where, and so, to do this justice, I need to mention, and review the last 28months of my life. These up to this moment, have again been the best 28months of my life. So lets review, and go back to the most important day of my life to date. Thus, we rewind time to 26.2.06, the start of my dolce vita.
On this day, I was searching people on myspace, looking for people with similar interests. I found a few people, one of which was a girl who lived in Milano, a girl named Chiara. I sent a friend request, and the following day it was accepted, and I found a lovely message. We started to message each other on a regular basis, and our friendship grew and grew. On the 13.3.06 she showed me what an amazing person she was, she really stood up as a friend, sent some amazing words, and supported me through what was a very hard day. To say this stunned me would be an understatement, this person, who I had only known for a few weeks really helped me. She cared for me, something which my established friends had never done on this day.
Five days after that, while chatting online, we both confessed our feelings to each other. We both said that we felt this was more than a friendship. So quietly, and unknown to any of my friends, and most of hers we became boyfriend and girlfriend, despite being miles apart. Chiara being a girl, soon told the rest of her friends, but I , for fear of this being not real, a cruel joke, or a figment of my imagination, kept it secret. Not long after this, some point in April, we finally spoke for real, on the phone. I heard this stunning voice, a voice which captivated me. As usual, it was her that made this first call, my brave Chiara. By this point, both of us lived on our pcs, chatting from the moment we returned from work, until the early hours, even eating infront of the pc at times. By now, I was deeply in love, but still kept in secret, not being able to believe an angel like this, could possibly want someone like me in her life.
This led to our next big landmark, and again, I was stunned by the bravery of my Chiara. At some point in May we organised something, and on 29.7.06, after a long flight, and longer train journey, my brave Chiara, was here in England. She travelled all alone, and as I waited at the train station, I must admit I was a bag of nerves., then infront of me, was this stunning girl. A girl who took my breath away with her beauty, and as they say, you could have knocked me down with a feather. She had travelled for hours and hours just to see me, and not only was she sweet,and caring, and intelligent, but she was drop dead gorgeous, beautiful beyond all my dreams. We then spent the next 10 glorious days together. While doing this we apparently scared some people, so as we spent every minute together, enjoying minute after minute, second after second, some of my friends(who of course still didn`t know anything) thought I had vanished, or died, even sending one of them around to my house to see if they could see a dead body.
By now, after all this time together for real, rather than virtually, she had stolen my heart, and my soull. Our relationship grew and grew, and we saw each other again later that year. then came Christmas, and since I was stuck at the hell that is work, as a late Christmas treat, my Chiara came and visited me for the new year. We had a delayed Christmas, with full dinner, and this just confirmed the thoughts in my head, the fact that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this girl. Why she did, and still does want to spend the rest of her life with me is a mystery.
Our 1st anniversary came in Prague, our 1st holiday together. A holiday which has so many memories, memories which I will never, ever forget. After this, we returned to Milan, and I met her mother fo rthe 1st time ever. She made me feel so welcome, and I felt like I was part of the family straight away. In the year that followed, we had many more highlights. Birthdays together, meeting her father(who apart from attacking me with an axe,lol)made me feel very welcome. We had more trips together including Verona and Lisbon. We had our 1st real tests as a couple, and came through each one even stronger, working as a team, strong and united. I met,and she met each others friends. I having met almost all of hers, and her most of mine(some are still missing). Amazingly, she even agreed to meetmy family for the 1st time at my cousins, Adriana`s wedding. Here again, she won them over, and when we visited again later in the year, so both parties could really get to know each other, they fell in love with her.
By this point, we had our talks, and on a day in the summer of 07, during a walk in our woods, we did the great survey. At the end of this detailed survey, we had an answe, and I guess thanks to Starbucks, we decided that she should move to England, rather than me to Italy. We saw 07 end, and 08 start together, and had our 1st actual christmas together. For our anniversary we went to Athens, city of antiquity,culture,smoking and porn. This was another unforgettable holiday, and has led to the current best day of my life. On the day of our 2nd anniv(ish) I proposed, and crazy Chiara said yes, making me the happiest man alive, as I had Chiara as my fiance. That was the best day of my life to date. This day can only possibly be surpassed by 2 events, and maybe 3. These are the reason for starting this blog, and I guess amongst the other blogs that might be posted before them, they will be the key ones. Before I list these future dates, I will briefly touch on the months following our engagement. They have proved to me how strong we are, how we can fight anything we face and beat it. So we have had a long w/e in York, which was alot of fun, we have had some great days together, and have had some challenges. We have risen to these challenges,and despite the fact I can`t do too much to help, we are fighting well, and beating the problems we face, as a compact unit.
So I end this long blog, but since it was a review of 28months i think it isn`t too long.
But what of these other days? Well the only days that can possibly make me happier than the day she said yes will be these one. The first, which should hopefully be early next year, will be the day my angel finally moves in with me and we start our lives together. The second which should be late next year, will be our wedding, the day Chiara becomes my wife, this is a day I imagine at least once a week. The third, the only other possible day that could compete with the day she said yes, would be the day we have our child.
thank you for reading, I hope I haven`t bored you
Obviously, these 2 years haven`t just appeared from no where, and so, to do this justice, I need to mention, and review the last 28months of my life. These up to this moment, have again been the best 28months of my life. So lets review, and go back to the most important day of my life to date. Thus, we rewind time to 26.2.06, the start of my dolce vita.
On this day, I was searching people on myspace, looking for people with similar interests. I found a few people, one of which was a girl who lived in Milano, a girl named Chiara. I sent a friend request, and the following day it was accepted, and I found a lovely message. We started to message each other on a regular basis, and our friendship grew and grew. On the 13.3.06 she showed me what an amazing person she was, she really stood up as a friend, sent some amazing words, and supported me through what was a very hard day. To say this stunned me would be an understatement, this person, who I had only known for a few weeks really helped me. She cared for me, something which my established friends had never done on this day.
Five days after that, while chatting online, we both confessed our feelings to each other. We both said that we felt this was more than a friendship. So quietly, and unknown to any of my friends, and most of hers we became boyfriend and girlfriend, despite being miles apart. Chiara being a girl, soon told the rest of her friends, but I , for fear of this being not real, a cruel joke, or a figment of my imagination, kept it secret. Not long after this, some point in April, we finally spoke for real, on the phone. I heard this stunning voice, a voice which captivated me. As usual, it was her that made this first call, my brave Chiara. By this point, both of us lived on our pcs, chatting from the moment we returned from work, until the early hours, even eating infront of the pc at times. By now, I was deeply in love, but still kept in secret, not being able to believe an angel like this, could possibly want someone like me in her life.
This led to our next big landmark, and again, I was stunned by the bravery of my Chiara. At some point in May we organised something, and on 29.7.06, after a long flight, and longer train journey, my brave Chiara, was here in England. She travelled all alone, and as I waited at the train station, I must admit I was a bag of nerves., then infront of me, was this stunning girl. A girl who took my breath away with her beauty, and as they say, you could have knocked me down with a feather. She had travelled for hours and hours just to see me, and not only was she sweet,and caring, and intelligent, but she was drop dead gorgeous, beautiful beyond all my dreams. We then spent the next 10 glorious days together. While doing this we apparently scared some people, so as we spent every minute together, enjoying minute after minute, second after second, some of my friends(who of course still didn`t know anything) thought I had vanished, or died, even sending one of them around to my house to see if they could see a dead body.
By now, after all this time together for real, rather than virtually, she had stolen my heart, and my soull. Our relationship grew and grew, and we saw each other again later that year. then came Christmas, and since I was stuck at the hell that is work, as a late Christmas treat, my Chiara came and visited me for the new year. We had a delayed Christmas, with full dinner, and this just confirmed the thoughts in my head, the fact that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this girl. Why she did, and still does want to spend the rest of her life with me is a mystery.
Our 1st anniversary came in Prague, our 1st holiday together. A holiday which has so many memories, memories which I will never, ever forget. After this, we returned to Milan, and I met her mother fo rthe 1st time ever. She made me feel so welcome, and I felt like I was part of the family straight away. In the year that followed, we had many more highlights. Birthdays together, meeting her father(who apart from attacking me with an axe,lol)made me feel very welcome. We had more trips together including Verona and Lisbon. We had our 1st real tests as a couple, and came through each one even stronger, working as a team, strong and united. I met,and she met each others friends. I having met almost all of hers, and her most of mine(some are still missing). Amazingly, she even agreed to meetmy family for the 1st time at my cousins, Adriana`s wedding. Here again, she won them over, and when we visited again later in the year, so both parties could really get to know each other, they fell in love with her.
By this point, we had our talks, and on a day in the summer of 07, during a walk in our woods, we did the great survey. At the end of this detailed survey, we had an answe, and I guess thanks to Starbucks, we decided that she should move to England, rather than me to Italy. We saw 07 end, and 08 start together, and had our 1st actual christmas together. For our anniversary we went to Athens, city of antiquity,culture,smoking and porn. This was another unforgettable holiday, and has led to the current best day of my life. On the day of our 2nd anniv(ish) I proposed, and crazy Chiara said yes, making me the happiest man alive, as I had Chiara as my fiance. That was the best day of my life to date. This day can only possibly be surpassed by 2 events, and maybe 3. These are the reason for starting this blog, and I guess amongst the other blogs that might be posted before them, they will be the key ones. Before I list these future dates, I will briefly touch on the months following our engagement. They have proved to me how strong we are, how we can fight anything we face and beat it. So we have had a long w/e in York, which was alot of fun, we have had some great days together, and have had some challenges. We have risen to these challenges,and despite the fact I can`t do too much to help, we are fighting well, and beating the problems we face, as a compact unit.
So I end this long blog, but since it was a review of 28months i think it isn`t too long.
But what of these other days? Well the only days that can possibly make me happier than the day she said yes will be these one. The first, which should hopefully be early next year, will be the day my angel finally moves in with me and we start our lives together. The second which should be late next year, will be our wedding, the day Chiara becomes my wife, this is a day I imagine at least once a week. The third, the only other possible day that could compete with the day she said yes, would be the day we have our child.
thank you for reading, I hope I haven`t bored you
6 comments:
... what can I say? you left me speechles... and it's not that easy!!!
I love you, my price
I left you speechless, wow, all I mentioned was the simple truth, and siad how I felt
take care of my chiara, peter, or i'll have to come to England to beat you
i'll stop by in a sarbucks anyway, so you'll have time to run away!
thanks Viz!
... though I'm pretty sure he will never mistreat me... but if you want to come to England and go to Starbucks, I'll gladly come with you!
;-)
And I will too.I truely hope to meet you one day, and not just to beat me up, which you have now threatened to do twice.
we could all go to Nandos!!!
yippeeee!!! we go all together to nando's... then we go to in starbucks too!!! that's the ideal meal!!!
=)
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